Unlike tampons pads dont have to be inserted inside the vagina intruding a women's sacred place. Call me old fashion but history has show the only two things that should and actually need to be inside or coming out of a women's vagina are a penis or a offspring.
It's like if a women uses a dildo that would lower ones self esteem like really me being inside you isn't enough I find it kind of ridiculous that a women would need a object almost the shape of a penis inside there vagina when they have the one they love and want to spend the rest of there life with more than capable of doing the same thing or even if it's just fling or some shit. On a ending note there are so many different kinds and types of pads out there that all women can find one that will fit them.
Guys are known to freak out about it. Most guys freak out about it. I on the other hand don't care. Most people know the deal. Guys won't think "post op" and will think "girlfriend". It actually signifies that you're getting some. You might want to run it by him again and say "hey don't feel weird about it, all they'll think is your getting some".
It could go from a source of embarrassment embarrassment to a source of pride. However logical that may sound, most guys are embarrassed by it so he very well could think "ok, but everyone else is embarrassed to do it so I will seem like a fool to the rest of the guys out their.
Big and small, young and old The embarrassment is as old as tampons them selves. TheDiscipulus Xper 5. Most people think that's chivalrous, since it's sort of like helping a damsel in distress. Yeah I'd do it. I've done it. Of course, I probably wouldn't if I had done it in the past and been yelled at or attacked for getting the slightly wrong thing. Some guys can't handle it, and some can't handle it with any class. And those guys are the ones we hear about from friends who work at the stores.
Kevin Xper 5. How would I feel? I'd feel hope that the cashier I use is male and ugly. That way I can mock him by saying, "I have a girlfriend, here's the proof, and I bet you don't, ha ha.
I really honestly wouldn't mind. The worst anyone would think is "that guy's girlfriend is on her period, I guess he's using protection. I was raised by a single mom, so I was the only male in the house since my only sibling is a sister.
Maybe that skews my view a bit. But it doesn't seem odd to me at all. I mean, my mom had me running those kinds of errands for her to the grocery store across the street when I was as young as It just doesn't seem weird to me at all.
I mean, what's so embarrassing about it? It's obviously not for you. I've been dating my current girlfriend for a little over three months and she was surprised when I told her I would buy pads for her without her even asking me to. I work in retail myself and usually get them at the store I work at.
I've even gotten some positive responses from female co-workers that know who I'm getting them for. PatrickRory Xper 2. Ashy Xper 4. My ex did. I never even asked him.
I just told him I needed to go to the store to get something I was too embarrassed to tell him , but I was in severe pain from cramps which he knew about. He offered to go to the store at 1 am and get me tampons I would never date a guy who would have issues with such a thing DemsBones Xper 4. Thanatos Xper 5. I'd never had sex on my period before, with either men or women. She's really the first consistent girlfriend I've had in my life, and one of the things that, I don't want to say it was a fear, but that I thought about, is what if our cycles aren't the same, and we don't have sex when we have our periods?
That would mean not having sex for two weeks, and I'm not OK with that. Fortunately, it's not a problem for us. I do not have sex during my period, and that decision is rooted in my Jewish spiritual practice, as well as all of the learning I've done about my body and my cycle -- from hippie, woo-woo, feminist menstruation literature [laughs].
I am the founder of an organization supporting Jewish women's wellness , so I think about this topic a lot. Basically, I think of my period as a time when I'm really turning inward, harnessing the unique energy and power of that time.
I don't go so far as to not touch, and if I were in a committed relationship which I'm not now I would certainly snuggle and spend time with my partner, but I won't have sex or share my body in that way.
When you have sex with a man, someone else's body part is literally inside your body. I see that as more of a thing to do around ovulation, which is when I feel like I really want sex. I don't want to get pregnant, so I use double barrier protection during that time. A lot of the family planning laws in Judaism, and ideas about avoiding sex during menstruation, are steeped in patriarchal texts about impurities, but to me, I really read it as a much deeper message.
It's about giving my body that restful time. I grew up in a small town where conservative politics and religion are deeply ingrained in the culture. I distinctly remember coming home from school after they gave the puberty talk, and my mom told me that none of my younger sisters could know what I had just learned.
She told me that when I did start my period, I would have to hide my feminine products -- even my razors -- somewhere in the bathroom so my brothers wouldn't see them. So every time I had my period, I felt like my body was doing something wrong. I became sexually active at 15, but didn't have period sex until college.
By then I was much more comfortable with my period because I had talked about it with friends and read articles that reassured me it is OK. The first time I did have period sex, I was drunk. I openly announced that I had my period, and the guy was into it. It was a fantasy he had always had. Honestly, I think it took me being drunk that first time to be OK with it -- but it's something I've been comfortable with ever since.
I think communication is key. My current, longterm boyfriend is curious about it more than anything else, and I really think a lot men believe period sex is disgusting simply because they aren't informed about it at all. He did once get a bit grossed out -- and concerned -- when he saw clots coming out while we were having sex, but so long as we talk about these things openly with each other, we're golden.
Having said that, he didn't want to talk about it for this article. Like, it's our own secret "gross" thing we do, I guess? We fell into our routine. During that time, I focus on pleasuring her.
However, by day three or four we got back to a more reciprocal approach. Her period is heavy, and just makes her disinterested in sex. She usually wants to avoid receiving anything, including oral, during her period. We just handle the mess by doing lots of laundry. Some queer female couples are more comfortable than us with period sex, and some are less comfortable. I put one in and when I pulled out the applicator, the string came out with it.
Spent several hours trying to fish it out with my hand. Not fun and totally disgusting but hilarious years later. I had been invited to a swimming party and I was probably only I was so upset about not being able to go so my mom offered to teach me how to use one… She got out a mirror so I could see what I was doing and it totally freaked me out. There was a tampon in there that I had NO idea was there.
I change my tampons regularly throughout the day, I am usually VERY diligent about taking care of myself in general. I cannot tell you how embarassing and shocking this was that it happened to me. I was so embarassed that you ladies are really the only people I have ever told this happened. These words are for us all. But it's the person with the period's choice what they use to manage it.
My boyfriend picked up my backpack today and saw my tampons in the front He said. Is that what I think that is? Share Facebook. My boyfriend found tampons? Add Opinion. Justalittlebitbored Xper 6. I don't know just how young you are, but there is absolutely no reason to be embarrassed about tampons. It's basically the same as you feeling embarrassed about your boyfriend seeing that you have toilet paper at home.
There's no reason for you to say anything about it, because there's no reason to be embarrassed about it. He was probably just joking around a little bit, and didn't think you'd react that drastically. If you want to go back to normal, just tell him that you overreacted because you got embarrassed when there was no real reason to and you're good to go.
Is this still revelant? Don't be embarrassed, it was just a dumb boy response but as you can tell he tried doing a redo because he realized his words came out wrong and he didn't want to disappoint you. And when boys get older they don't fear those things and will go to the store for you to get them with your fav candy and drinks and do everything to make you comfortable till you feel better.
Well most will, not all boys turn into men. SO Xper 4. You seem pretty young It's nothing to be embarrassed about it's normal and it really isn't something he should apologize for either because if he said "is that what I think it is?
When my cousins were younger they once made me open a tampon because they never saw one out of the pack lol. Wonderer89 1. What are you embarrassed about?
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